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Jan. 22nd, 2009 05:52 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
unbibiumI may have been hard on myself for the idea that inviting a woman to my apartment to watch TV was some deceptive scheme.
Why not? Because this implies that I'm not me, but instead am some unrealistic stereotype of a guy, who not only is comfortable enough to make a move on a woman the first time she comes over, but has enough mad seduction skills to make her receptive to that within a single visit. Neither is true.
I've heard of at least one guy who can get women to visit his apartment but can't, so to speak, close the deal. It's reasonable for me to see that as a level to work up to.
Why not? Because this implies that I'm not me, but instead am some unrealistic stereotype of a guy, who not only is comfortable enough to make a move on a woman the first time she comes over, but has enough mad seduction skills to make her receptive to that within a single visit. Neither is true.
I've heard of at least one guy who can get women to visit his apartment but can't, so to speak, close the deal. It's reasonable for me to see that as a level to work up to.
