after umpteen years of dating and fucking up at it, i've come to the conclusion that there should never be an assumption. it should always be explicit.
even the gf/bf used freely doesn't count, because some gals will start using it after the 1st date. that's a high road to disappointment.
i picked "engagement" cos hopefully two people have had the balls to talk explicitly by then.
but really, we're all adults (mostly). even after engagement, nothing's wrong with a threesome.
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Date: 2007-07-20 11:10 pm (UTC)even the gf/bf used freely doesn't count, because some gals will start using it after the 1st date. that's a high road to disappointment.
i picked "engagement" cos hopefully two people have had the balls to talk explicitly by then.
but really, we're all adults (mostly). even after engagement, nothing's wrong with a threesome.