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unbibium ([personal profile] unbibium) wrote2007-07-20 03:31 pm
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REVISED POLL

OK, I meant to get rid of that "Negotiate on a case-by-case basis" because I knew that would be a cop-out, and certainly if someone decides to state their terms, that can take precedence over habit.

But, suppose it doesn't come up in conversation. Certainly you won't ask whether you're allowed to see anyone else after the first date, at the very least. I'm trying to get a feel for what you think the social norm is, in your own social circles.

Don't be shy; results are viewable only to me; your girlfriend or wife won't find out if you saw someone else between your first and second dates.

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[identity profile] ronebofh.livejournal.com 2007-07-20 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm one of those crazy people who's totally wired for monogamy, because i think relationships are hard work and trying to have more than one at the same time is Bad. This needs to be negotiated, always, always, always, and the first "real" kiss is the deadline for the discussion.